Questions of a Broken Heart
Shall we follow our heart and forget what has happened before? forget that it was broken once? or shall we think and make decisions upon analyzing the past? even if we have to give up on our heart?
Can we forget the piece of our heart which have been given to someone? and can we give another piece of it to anotherone? wouldn't those two pieces conflict ever? or shall we try to glue the first piece no matter what? knowing the feeling was perfect?
What if we can't give our heart to anybody else? is it still better to give the first piece away?
What if the broken peice breaks again? does it worth trying? which one would hurt more? trying to forget the broken piece? or letting it break again -in case it does- by giving another chance to it?
Do feeling ever lie to us? if we think some feeling is extraordinary, does it mean that it really is? and it will be forever?
Should we give THIRD chance to a relationship? incase of knowing the previous situation was the main reason for the whole misunderstandings?
posted by Her Life Goes On @ 6:15 PM
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sometimes our feelings are just an excuse to justify a wrong decision we like to make. Don't let your feeling to confuse you and remember to dificult days you had to overcome first and second times you faced with the same situation in your relationship.
may the God be with you
You are absolutely right, an excuse for a wrong decision...but what IF it's not a wrong decision?
you are not 100% sure this is why you raised the question, so think of the reason for not being sure about this, we both know misunderstanding happens with no doubt, but how people are handling those problems/misunderstanding is important.
look at the past and see if you liked the way you both were handling your problems , don't forget that you may be able to adjust yourself in his way of living but don't count of changing him in regards of dealing with future dificult situations.
Good luck
Maybe just fear, fear of being in the same road again which ends to sorrow, which ends to what I felt at the begining of creation of this blog!
to my opinion he will be the same as what he was! come on just Value yourself and risk your life for somebody who deserve it not for somebody who has already failed it many times!
You will find your man in a right place at the righ time,
just do what you have mentioned in your Magic of Mind post ;) trust me,it works very well
I'd have to agree. You should try to get on with your life, instead of thinking about what could have been. I believe things happen for a reason, and if you two are meant for eachother, nothing can keep you apart. However, we always have a tendency to idealize former relationships, and it's some times even harder to see clearly in retrospect. I think you'd only go through the same thing once more if you tried, but who am I to say that...? :) Nobody really knows, but it is better to go on with your life, and if it was meant to happen I truly believe it will, sooner or later. Holding on to the past will always restrict your growth as a person. Also, to make it work the THIRD time, both would have to have grown and evolved - otherwise the same mistakes would certainly be repeated. I agree, do as you said in your magic mind posting. :)
Reading through what I just wrote, the thought that occured to me is: I wish I could be that sensible with my own relationships. :) haha
Good luck! :)
Yes Kristian, it's always easily been said :)
I will not do the same mistake(s) again, instead that some big things change, who knows maybe those things change someday, and that's when I can decide weather to give it another chance or not.
I agree with Kristian, as usual. :)
If it's meant to be than it will happen. I know I started my blog for the same reason you did. I wanted to keep track of my feelings. Over time I tend to forget the bad times in relationships. Now I can just look back and remember how Nick made me feel, etc. Your posts have gotten so much more happy sounding since you first start posting. I would hate for this guy to rip your heart out again.
Yes TG, that's the only thing that I should be worried about. I am not up to any decision now, let see what happens.
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